First dates can be anything: the start of a new romance, a terrible experience, or just one of those dates that go nowhere. Although you can't predict whether you'll have chemistry or fall in love at first sight, there's one thing you can control to increase your chances of a successful date: Creating the right atmosphere. This starts with choosing the place for the first meeting. Here are 12 ideas:
1. Meeting for a coffee
A relaxed and pressure-free meeting that can easily be scheduled during the day. It gives you the chance to get to know each other without feeling forced to stay too long.
2. Drink in a bar
This is a classic choice that always works. A quick drink creates a relaxed environment to chat and if you want, you can end the meeting after a drink or continue it further.
3. Lunch
A lunch is an easier and less formal choice than dinner, making the meeting less awkward.
4. Walk in the park
A free activity that allows you to chat and get to know each other while walking in nature. An easy way to spend time together without pressure.
5. Visit to the bookstore/library
A romantic idea that gives you the opportunity to get to know each other's literary tastes. A special way to spend time talking about favorite books.
6. Ice cream
An easy idea and not expensive at all. When was the last time you saw someone not enjoy an ice cream?
7. Picnic in the park
An easy way to spend time in nature. Pack some drinks and snacks and spend a leisurely afternoon together.
8. Walking in nature
Only if you're both into hiking! This can be a great way to spend time together and enjoy nature.
9. Walk of four-legged friends
It doesn't take a lot of energy and you can get to know the other person's best friend.
10. Reading tarot cards
If you have an interest in mystical things, a tarot reader can help create a special atmosphere and reveal what the future may hold for the two of you.
11. Create your own 'masterpieces'
Find a 1-day painting or ceramic course and discover your (un)hidden talents.
12. Take a shopping trip
Visit a market where you can see local products, enjoy fast food and have quiet conversations as you walk. This is an opportunity to bond through shared experiences.
Suggested articles:
- What can you wear when you have left your next meeting somewhere in nature
- Why is it that with some people you feel an instant connection as soon as you see them for the first time
- Do you know what they see most about you on the first date?
- 8 messages to start the conversation in DM after a first date
