Have you ever met someone who is the embodiment of a soothing ASMR video? When you are with them, you immediately feel more relaxed - almost to the point where you forget your problems. Whether they have soothing body language, make excellent eye contact, or listen attentively - or perhaps all of them, it is interesting to think about what qualities make people have this effect. What about you, does he have these qualities?
Experts cite some signs that show that your energy or presence is soothing to others. You probably do not know, but people want to be around you because in one way or another, you reflect on them a better version of themselves.
# 1 - You are present in the moment and that brings people closer to the present.
# 2 - Always respect the personal spaces and boundaries of others.
# 3 - People always trust you and you are aware that they can trust you without any problem.
# 4 - You are a very good listener.
# 5 - In a group or conversation, try to involve everyone.
# 6 - You usually have some kind of neutral energy: not negative, not too euphoric.
# 7 - Do the things that relax you.
# 8 - Practice yoga, meditation.
# 9 - Worship everything related to self-care.
# 10 - Take slow or fast steps depending on where you are in life, without worrying about how and how much others are walking.
# 11 - You are generous.
# 12 - Ready to solve people's problems.
# 13 - Know how to cheer someone up and say the right words.
# 14 - You are friendly and warm to people.
# 15 - You are very empathetic.
# 16 - Have realistic expectations.
# 17 - Use positive language, without overdoing it.
# 18 - You are grateful.
Source: Bustle
