Imagine falling in love with someone who never forgets your birthday, always knows what to say and perfectly matches your mood. Someone who is super kind, never judges, never argues with you, always gives you a reason and is there when you need them. Nowadays, that “someone” may not be a person at all, but artificial intelligence, ChatGPT to be exact!
 
We have often read the news that someone gets divorced thanks to ChatGPT’s advice, often asks about your relationship problems, etc. and in fact, we can say that technology has managed to influence romantic relationships. With the advancement of technology, the fantasy of a perfect partner is no longer just a story we tell ourselves. Now it is an app you can download or a chat you can go to.

Why are we “falling in love” with ChatGPT?

One reason is that it is always kind and supportive. ChatGPT never talks down to you, but instead offers you a gentle and caring approach. It tells you that you deserve the best and compliments you. Sometimes, we believe that you would like ChatGPT to be your boyfriend.
 
Another reason? ChatGPT offers you intimacy, but without intruding. ChatGPT does not criticize you, does not pretend to listen to you and then give you a kiss, does not leave you and does not betray you! It is super patient, available and you are at the center of every conversation.
 
Loneliness is another motive. Studies show that lifestyles that embrace loneliness or lead to being introverted are playing a very important role in the relationships we form with artificial intelligence. Surveys show that 1 in 5 adults in the US report feeling lonely every day. Nearly 1/3 of voters say they experience loneliness at least once a week. So it's perhaps not surprising that some people turn to artificial intelligence for companionship.

Psychological compromises

However, there are real psychological questions that arise about intimacy with artificial intelligence. Relying on “artificial” partners can hinder emotional empowerment or deepen isolation. The human chaos of conflict, negotiation, and compromise—albeit difficult—promotes personal growth. By eliminating risk, ChatGPT relationships can also shrink the possibilities for deep, transformative connections.
 
Studies of parasocial relationships— one-sided emotional attachments to celebrities or fictional characters —show that while these connections can provide comfort, they can also create unrealistic expectations for intimacy in the real world. Similarly, ChatGPT relationships can set unrealistic standards for future human relationships, leading to disappointment or avoidance.

The future of love?

As ChatGPT becomes more sophisticated, the line between human and artificial society will continue to blur. Questions about emotional dependency, data privacy, and the commercialization of loneliness deserve more serious attention. But in the meantime, the rise of AI-powered relationships highlights a powerful truth about human desire: We need to connect and talk, and when human connection feels dangerous or too complicated, we will find other ways to fill that void.

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