Sex is one of those rare activities that prompts us to pause for a moment from our hectic routine and focus solely on pleasure, both our partner's and our own. Since the main purpose of this act is to create a special bond, relax and enjoy the moment, why not make the experience as enjoyable as possible?
In many cases, the thoughts and worries we have prevent us from letting ourselves go and fully experiencing pleasure. As a result, some find it difficult to experience orgasm or to create a strong bond with their partner.
Fortunately, there are a few simple things you can keep in mind to increase pleasure and drive your partner crazy in the process:
1. Maintain eye contact
If you feel your mind drifting elsewhere, try looking your partner directly in the eye for a few seconds. It may feel a little uncomfortable at first, but if you persist, you'll find that this contact creates a deep sense of intimacy that can translate into physical pleasure.
2. Tell a fantasy
To add an extra spark to the moment, lean in close and whisper to your partner a crazy fantasy you have in mind. Of course, make sure your partner is open to this kind of communication. This can be a fun way to explore scenarios that can turn you both on and make the experience even more exciting.
3. Change position
If you're in a position you don't really like or want to try something different, don't be afraid to speak up or take the initiative. For example, use a pillow to elevate your pelvis or move into a position where you feel more powerful and in control. This confidence will make the experience more enjoyable for both of you.
4. Let your imagination run free
Sex is not always limited to the bedroom. If you find yourself on a quiet road, why not stop for a moment of intimacy? Or, try something quick in the kitchen, bathroom or anywhere else when the kids are away. These spontaneous moments will add new emotions to your relationship.
5. Focus on the moment
The brain is the center of our pleasure. While you are making love, try to think about every action that is taking place. Think about that feeling and what it evokes. Use the mind to connect with the body and increase awareness of the pleasure you are experiencing.
By implementing these tips, you will not only improve your experience, but you will create a deeper and more intimate connection with your partner. Try it and enjoy the results!
