Jemima Kirke is an American-British actress and director. Best known for her role as Jessa on Girls, Kirke, 39, is a single mother of two who often shares valuable advice on motherhood, love, life and everything else on Instagram.
Here are 20+ of the actress's most interesting, sometimes rude, but humorous answers to questions that many of you may find yourself:
1. Question: I am afraid that I will never like myself as I am, both outside and inside.
Answer: Rarely do both happen at the same time. But there will be moments.
2. Question: Advice for marriage? I have a wedding in a few days.
Answer: You will lose love and become emotionally detached. [Anyway] You made a promise to get back to your partner again.
3.Question: My partner packed up and left while I was at work. How do I get through this?
Answer: Stop lamenting his/her absence and start lamenting your own ignorance. They left you. Get angry.
4. Question: I don't love him anymore, but I'm afraid I'll regret it if I leave him. What should I do?
Answer: If you don't want it, you're using it.
5. Question: In love with an alcoholic...
Answer: You are not his priority. Have low expectations. You are not wrong for loving him.
6. Question : You are 36 years old. Any tips?
Answer: Other than enthusiastic bot emails, don't expect your birthday to matter anymore.
7. Question: How do you recognize a narcissist when you're in a relationship with one?
Answer: I'm not sure, but you'd be hard-pressed to tell a person who has some narcissistic qualities from someone who really has a personality disorder. Whatever the situation, if you really like the person, why should you avoid them?
8. Question: I got a tattoo, but now I'm anxious because I think it was a mistake.
Answer: Tattoos are unnecessary. Fun and permanent. You will definitely regret them at some point.
9. Question: What should I know when I lose my virginity?
Answer: It will get better.
10. Question: How to deal with intergenerational trauma. I'm going crazy.
Answer: First, Boll called it intergenerational trauma. The term alone may be distracting you from responsibilities.
11. Question: How to be more yourself?
A: I don't think there is such a thing as 'being yourself'. You're always you, even when you're behaving differently than usual, it's still you doing it. Or maybe you're wearing something you don't like that much. Then it turns out you chose the wrong combination of clothing.
12 . Q: Any advice for young girls lacking confidence?
Answer: I think you are thinking too much of yourself.
13. Question: How to stop loving someone who is bad for you?
Answer: You can't. You keep waking up thinking that you won't make it and then you remember that you felt the same way yesterday. One day this will make you laugh.
14. Question : How is it possible that the tattoos are changing? Did you remove some or what?
A: I got the tattoos to get rid of them. I bought a house to move out of. I bought a chocolate bar to throw in the bin. I got married to get divorced.
15. Question: Why do boys lose interest in girls quickly?
Answer: They don't lose it. You are probably better at protecting love than he is. And often you will have to do this for both of you. If you want to do it.
16. Question: How to accept my natural beauty?
Answer: It depends on how you look.
17. Question: Best album for a broken heart?
Answer: None. Avoid music. It will lead you to tragic romanticizations.
18. Question: How do you get inspired when you're not feeling creative at all?
Answer: I just do my job. Inspiration is a good day.
19. Question: How do you find meaning?
Answer: Well, it's a choice. It's not like it's hiding anywhere but within your own creativity. Movies also help.
20. Question: How do you know that you have fallen in love with someone?
A: It feels wonderful and terrible at the same time.
21. Question: Does sex destroy a friendship?
Answer: It depends on how good he was.
