Close friends are a very important part of our lives, and since they are always present, there can certainly be a moment when a fight or conflict occurs. How to become friends again and turn a fight into a productive discussion? If you follow these tips:
1. Be aware of the emotions that friends experience
If friends have gone through a tough time and are venting and you're the one who's pouring out their anger, don't take it personally and don't say things that hurt your friends.
2. Consider postponing the discussion when you are calmer
You can put it off, but not forget it. If there is a conflict, you must definitely resolve it.
3. Plan in advance what you want to say
If you know very well the topic of the dispute and its reasons, it is good to make a resume with yourself, collect arguments and present them at the right moment.
4. Adapt to the communication of friends
If it's a heated argument, adjust to how your friends react. Always reflect their behavior.
5. Articulate in the right way
This helps you think and not offend your friends. Remember: discussions and quarrels should not include insults and insults at all.
6. Be honest and direct
Sincerity is the basis of any relationship, so don't overlook it.
7. You must be clear about your goals
What do you expect from this conversation? Set your expectations and be aware of how achievable they are.
8. Focus on the big picture
If you notice details, you will certainly find dissatisfaction. If in general, your friends are your biggest support, then they should be a part of your life.
9. Listen to understand
Always keep an open mind and listen to understand, not to retort and argue.
10. Keep in mind that it is normal for fights to happen
Conflicts are part of our lives and make a relationship healthier.
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