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Reasons why some people decide not to have children

Shkruar nga Anabel

14 Korrik 2022

Reasons why some people decide not to have children

Have you ever wondered why some people just decide not to have children? If you were curious, you will now learn some of the most interesting reasons.

1.

"Because at the moment it's economically impossible. The house and living costs so much and since we live in poverty now I don't even want to think what life would be like with another little person waiting on us. It's not right not even for children to live as they deserve."

2.

"I don't want children because I think I will be physically and emotionally destroyed. Even if the pregnancy is simple, your whole body and hormones change. People act like for 9 months they will be sitting in a field surrounded by flowers while they wait. your belly grows. No sirs! You have mood swings, someone kicks you from inside, your hair changes, even your eyesight can change.. I had no idea about all this until my friends started having babies one after another. "

3.

"Because I really like to sleep. Lack of sleep makes me a bad person."

4.

"Because there are too many people on the planet right now. One of the biggest impacts our environment would feel from us is not having children."

5.

"What if the baby is a girl? Do I want to raise her in a place where she is prejudiced and cannot live freely with all her rights? What if my child is gay or trans? Would I want to see her face the injustice just because of his/her identity and choices? Am I about to lose a child in school because there are sudden attacks by crazy people? Can I protect him/her from the internet? What about global warming or the apocalypse the world is heading towards? are you doing? All the answers to these questions are "NO" so I choose not to have children."

6.

"I don't like children very much, so I don't want to be responsible for them all my life. I'm very happy to be an aunt."

7.

"I kam qejf fëmijët, por vetëm ideja që mund të bëhem prind më fut ankthin. Vetëm stresi i mendimit më rrënqeth. Duke qenë se jam emocionalisht e paqëndrueshme, them se nëse do të kisha fëmijë edhe martesa ime do merrte fund."

8.

"Unë mezi ja dal të kujdesem për veten, prandaj në asnjë mënyrë nuk mendoj të marr përgjegjësi për një fëmijë."

9.

"Unë jam rritur e varfër dhe tani që po jetoj dhe shijoj paratë e mia nuk dua të shqetësohem për qumështin formulë apo pelenat."

10.

"Vetëm kur mendoj dhe imagjonoj për zhurmat më fillon koka!"

11.

"Sepse s'dua të ndjej dhimbjet e lindjes. Të gjithë thonë që i harron sapo merr në krah bebin, por s'dua t'ja di. Nuk dua t'i ndjej ato dhimbje."

12.

"We as a family have had mental health problems and some of us are suicidal. I don't want to have a child for fear of inheriting our problems."

13.

"Because I like to enjoy free time, money, order and peace. When the baby comes, the opposite happens."

Source: BuzzFeed