"How can you be so fresh" someone wrote to Fjoralba Ponari on Instagram, linking being fresh with the fact that she looks smooth and always smiling.

Fjoralba has chosen not to share details of her private life, even if these are very difficult moments such as the sudden separation from her mother's life at the end of January. In a photo showing the hand with a lock of hair that has fallen out - a sign of stress - the moderator writes:

"Stress free what you ask, but never delivered! Well, I cried and cried about my troubles, who will solve them? You? And yes, you will smile as long as I have life, even in pain, even in sadness, even in illness ... the fact that I, unlike someone else, have the opportunity to live, gives me strength and courage to find beauty even in the most minimalist and meaningless things of life for someone else. ”

Fjoralba's photo proves that social networks are a lie and beyond the beautiful and curated photos, there are people who can face many problems, personal or family. That said, let’s be more polite to others as long as we know nothing about their lives beyond Instagram.