Every couple has their own unique way of communicating. Things that for one couple can be detrimental to the relationship, for another not only are not, but help making the relationship even stronger. However, beyond the exceptions, there are certain behaviors that divide couples into several types. Who do you belong to?

1. Those who want to avoid conflicts

If you and your partner do your best to avoid quarrels and maintain the harmony of the relationship, you belong to the group of couples who want to avoid conflicts. Each of you has personal interests and often think that there is nothing wrong with your relationship. 

People in this type of relationship do not see things in personal terms, but focus on the arguments and the common good of the relationship. However, do not try to avoid conflicts at all costs as it is likely that your partner will take your effort as a lack of attention. This in many cases has led many couples to betrayal. 

2. Impulsive

If you are very emotional all the time, in tension and you feel extreme passion, you are part of the second group - unstable / impulsive couples, ie those who make immediate and unexpected changes. It is easy for you to share your views with your partner because you know your partner's humor, integrity, respect and purpose. Your relationship is based on communication, empathy, humor and loyalty. Be open and accept each other's ideas, no matter how crazy they may sound to you at the moment. Studies say this is one of the happiest categories of couples.

3. "Confirmed" couples

If you work hard to understand how each of you perceives things, you are "validated" as a couple. You know how to deal with conflicts calmly and gently. Your relationship is characterized by support and understanding. You have no problem with the word "forgive me" because you know very well what compromise means. 

This type of couple is part of the 3 happiest couples, standing between those who avoid conflict and the impulsive. So you are neither too emotional nor too "open".

4. "The Enemies"

Që në kritikën e parë ju nisni të vetëmbroheni duke harruar që keni përballë atë që quhet "partneri" juaj. Ndjeni gjithë kohës që ai/ajo po tregohet egoist duke menduar vetëm për vete? Nëse po bëni pjesë tek çiftet jo shumë funksionalë, që njihen ndryshe si "armiqësorët". Fatkeqësisht kësaj kategorie nuk i mungojnë konfliktet dhe nuk përpiqen fare ta kuptojnë apo mbështesin njëri-tjetrin. 

Sipas studimeve, ky lloj çifti ka shumë gjasa të jetë thjesht "një bashkim i palumtur".

5. "Armiqësorët" që janë gjithmonë gati për t'u ndarë

Your relationship has all the feelings and behaviors inside: criticism, self-defense, attack, stubbornness, etc., etc., but unlike the type above, you try to break away more and more from each other. Believe that it is no longer worth fighting after your relationship is over. 

This category resembles hostile couples, but unlike them this type is prone to divorce. Emotional abuse is present as quarrels in relationships are inevitable. You are always ready for conflict!