Do you walk around thinking that chaos follows you wherever you go? There comes a point where you have to look at the common denominator: You.

Annoying things happen to everyone, this is life, it's like a roller coaster and you have to enjoy the ride.

Therefore, take responsibility for the feelings and actions you take while controlling your ego, especially in the face of a conflict, whether personal or professional. Having an excessive ego can affect every aspect of life and hinder personal and professional growth.

Do not let this happen. As a start, ask yourself these 10 questions to keep your ego in check and maintain your growth mindset (in every aspect).

# 1 - Are you humbled by the bounties of life, people to whom you should be grateful?

# 2 - Do you want to be right or are you really right?

# 3 - How did you contribute to the conflict?

# 4 - Are you considering the whole context, all or at least some of the perspectives?

# 5 - Do you ever try to see things through the eyes of others?

# 6 - Do you think you have room to grow (professionally, personally)? What are you doing to achieve this?

# 7 - Are you taking it too personal?

# 8 - What can you learn from others? What about past situations?

# 9 - What skills do you think you still have work to do? Make a list and start working on perfecting them.

# 10 - What Can You Do Better? Do not overdo it, just take note and do better next time. ;)

Source: The Talko