Everyone remembers the scene of Anastasia Steele, Chritstian Gray and the ice that was used during the prelude. If you too are curious to include it in your "scenes", first consider a few things.

1. Do not take ice directly from the freezer

Our body’s sensitivity to cold can vary greatly, but in general, it is difficult to distinguish between a shocking cold and a damaging-shocking cold. This is even more true on sensitive skin around the genitals or other erogenous zones. Use ice, but let it "rest" for very little, after removing it from the freezer.

2. You can use hot tea and ice cubes

Often times, the contrast of warm / cold sensations can be very stimulating for the partner. You can start by stirring them a little with a cup of mint tea, then cold ice. Here, too, be careful not to "burn" each other.

3. Do not place ice "inside" or directly on the genitals

Experts say do not experiment by placing ice inside the genitals. "Home-made ice dildos are not categorically recommended." What makes sex the whole situation, is the ice water that slides on the skin.

4. Leave sex toys in the fridge

Test the toys with your fingertips to make sure they are not too cold and do not forget the lubrication. You can even keep the lubricant in the fridge "for added pleasure," sexologists point out.

5. Explore with your partner, but be careful

Make sure you both respect each other's boundaries and do not confuse: GUDULISJ with prelude! If your partner asks you to stop, do it. As with any sexual experience, the use of ice is not for everyone. Make sure you listen to your partner, communicate openly and pay attention to how they respond.

Source: Elite Daily