We've all experienced that awkward moment when we open a gift and realize it's useless, but we have to show gratitude. Often, gifts end up being forgotten or donated (again) to charity. Givers focus too much on the moment of delivery of the gift and the reaction of the recipient, neglecting the importance of the fact that the gift should be usable or at least have some meaning.
Imagine this situation: The package being opened, your friend staring at you and what to see? A package of perfume and antiperspirant? Now you have to react and show how grateful you are even though the gift has no meaning.
In order not to put others in this situation, here are 3 things you should consider to choose the right gifts:
1. Know well the person you are giving a gift to
Understand his/her interests and desires.
2. Avoid generic gifts
Choose something unique and personal that has meaning and will make the person remember you every time they see the gift.
3. Ask what they want
Don't be afraid to ask what the gift recipient wants. Sometimes something necessary is better than something surprising.
By better understanding the psychology behind giving and using these practical tips, you can ensure that your gifts are loved and appreciated by those who receive them.
Bonus tip if all else fails: Just give yourself money!
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