Invited yesterday to "Peter Pan's Trap", Aurela Hoxha spoke about her life as a mother of two children and said that during her pregnancy she did not publish any photos on social networks, because she did not want to be commented on her physical form, but to enjoy the feeling beautiful pregnancy.
"It's a bit difficult this appearance of mine... that I lead an open life. However, on the other hand, I am very touched on delicate topics when I publish the child and such comments bother me a lot and this makes me think twice before making many of my things public," said Aurela.
She also gave a message to expectant mothers:
"My message is to all those girls who are in my position, they should not be influenced too much, especially on the topic of how to bring a child to life and the first thing before a congratulations comes is the forms, how much have you received weight and I think it's not a beautiful thing. I think it's the most beautiful thing in life to give birth to a child. It's not difficult at all to get back in shape. Don't experience it as stress, but experience it as the most beautiful thing in the world and this was actually the reason why I didn't publish my photos because I didn't want to be commented on my shapes, while I was experiencing such a beautiful feeling as that of pregnancy", she said.
Based on the comments that people usually make on social networks, where they discuss the physical changes that pregnancy brings, (we also take the example of Angel Shkira , who has reacted quite a few times), we think that we should bring to your attention some reasons that why you should never comment on a pregnant woman's body:
Because it is totally biological
Pregnancy brings many changes in women's physique and mood, and all of these are completely biological and normal. A pregnant woman carries a new life in her body and the only thing we should do is support and help her, leaving aside criticism or negative comments.
Because it is not a kind comment, but an insult
Nuk ka rëndësi sa pozitiv është qëllimi yt, kur komenton negativisht trupin e një gruaje shtatzënë, është fyerje. Shprehje si: “Uaa, sa je shëndoshur”, ose “Sa e dobët ke qenë” nuk kanë asgjë dashamirëse në thelb.
Komente të tilla ndikojnë në gjendjen psikologjike të grave
Sipas Incollingo Rodriguez, studiues dhe profesor i psikologjisë në “Worcester Polytechnic Institute”, ka një problem të madh me komentet e tilla, pasi sjellin pasoja që reflektohen në shëndetin e nënës dhe rrjedhimisht, edhe të fëmijës.
“Studimet kanë treguar se stresi i tillë në shtatzëni, mund të sjellë probleme me aftësitë konjitive ose sjelljen e fëmijëve. Gjithashtu, shkakton edhe probleme që lidhen me dhënien e gjirit”, shprehet ai. Kjo sjell edhe ngrënien emocionale, e cila ndikon në dietën dhe shëndetin fizik të nënës dhe fëmijës.
Sepse nuk është aspak puna jonë
What happens to a woman's body is none of our business. If she chooses to enjoy her pregnancy and not think about the pounds, why should we?
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