How easy it is to convince yourself to have sex with someone. Just keep telling yourself to enjoy the moment, it's just sex, right?
NO! There are many reasons why you should think twice before taking things to the next level with that handsome guy you think is the one for you.
1. If you don't want to, don't do it!
If you're in two minds about going to bed with him and you're not feeling the excitement you should be feeling, why are you doing it? It's all in your hands. You won't hold anyone back by fulfilling every want and need. Remember, your wants and needs come first!
2. Think he'll enjoy you more after sex.
It doesn't work like that. You don't have to convince anyone to like you. Sex is better when you can't get enough of each other!
3. He has been missing recently.
Yes. And what are you trying to do now? To regain his lost interest? He keeps canceling plans, he doesn't call you. Sleeping with him won't fix things. Unless you don't mind spending one night together and then never hearing from him again.
4. He has made it clear to you that he doesn't want anything serious.
At least appreciate the fact that he's being honest. But don't sleep with him in the hope that things might get serious. It probably won't, unless you're in a movie? Is this a movie? Where are the cameras?
5. He is contagious.
If you have sex with her and then she asks for some distance, are you willing to put up with her crying in front of the door for hours, begging you to come back?
6. I know you like him, but you're just looking for a flirt.
Don't have sex with someone just because you're horny, especially when you know they have feelings for you. Remember, their feelings matter, just like yours.
7. He is your friend's ex.
If you think she's your soulmate, give it to her. But if you just want to spend a night with her, stop there! Would you ruin a good friendship just because you wanted to buy a vibrator that could do the same job, if not better?
8. His exes are "crazy."
There are two options here. 1. He's crazy and after breaking up with someone he starts calling them all sorts of names. 2. He's haunted by bad luck and is attracted to crazy people. If it's the second, you're fine, but you wouldn't want to risk the first.
9. You are both very, very, very cool!
This is not a good idea at all. At least now that we are sober we think so. You never know, one of you might regret it the next morning. Do something smart, get some sleep and if the next morning you still feel like moving on to the next phase, go for it!
10. He does not use protective measures.
As cliché as it may sound, never have sex with someone who isn't using a condom, no matter how horny you are. You don't want to wake up with God-knows-what infection down there, do you?
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Source: Your Tango
