If you're someone who wants to get married, it's obvious that you've wondered whether or not your boyfriend will propose. Many young ladies can be left waiting for a proposal that never comes, which is not only frustrating because it means you could potentially lose out on another better guy, but it's also incredibly frustrating to think about the years you've wasted on someone who doesn't want to marry you.
If you don't want that to happen to you, get to know these telltale signs that your boyfriend wouldn't even consider getting down on one knee for you. But keep in mind: it's unfair to judge these signs on a guy you've only been dating for a month or two.
Here are the behaviors that expose a man who doesn't want to marry you:
1. He avoids attending other people's weddings
When a man is looking forward to his wedding, he will definitely get very excited to attend weddings and will want you to accompany him. If your partner hates going to other people's weddings, this is a good sign that he is not ready for his own.
2. He never talks about marriage.
If you bring up the topic of marriage and he changes the subject as quickly as possible, marriage is not on his mind. If he has an aversion to marriage, he is gently letting you know that marriage is probably not part of his future plans.
3. He refuses to make long-term plans
If your boyfriend only makes plans for the immediate or short-term, marriage is probably not a priority for him. Maybe he's always ready to make a date for this week or weekend, but rarely commits to the distant future. If he's hesitant to make plans after six months, your future together may not be secure.
4. He always has an excuse for everything.
Men are simple creatures. When they want something, you'll know it. If he's constantly making excuses about marriage or the future, it's time to realize that something is wrong.
5. He says, 'We're fine the way we are'
"What will engagement or marriage change?!" is something you don't want your future husband and the father of your children to hear. Run, lady, while you still have time!
6. He still lives in the past.
Does your boyfriend constantly tell you how much fun he had with the guys in Jalë in July 2004? If the answer is yes, maybe he's not yet mature enough to get married.
7. It makes him show interest in your future together.
When you mention your future and he seems completely uninterested in what you have planned, he's not looking to build a life with you.
8. He prefers to hang out with other single friends
Men who associate primarily with other single men may be more likely to delay marriage due to a phenomenon called normative influence. This is where individuals adapt their attitudes and behaviors to their social group, potentially reinforcing the perception that being single is more desirable.
9. He never mentions starting a family.
Men don't have the same biological clock that ticks like women, and most men don't even want children as much as some women do. In a man's mind, having a family is a natural thing that will happen once you get married. However, if he's not ready to discuss having a family, he may not be ready to pop the big question.
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Source: Your Tango
