When it comes to love languages, it's a fact that people show love differently. Some tend to be more verbal, while others tend to express love through actions rather than words.
The problem that many people have is that they often don't realize that someone is showing them love until it's too late. If you want an admirable relationship, then you need to make sure that you are doing the best things you can for your partner, and to get started, here are some ideas:
1. Talk to him, a lot, about everything.
When you love someone, they become your confidant for almost everything. You tell them about incidents at work, talk to them about how annoying your next-door neighbor is, and even suggest your favorite TV shows.
2. Choose to commit to it
People who are truly in love have no problem committing and will have no problem staying faithful. If your partner has to beg and plead for any of these things, you don't love them.
3. Nurture your intimate connection
People who are no longer in love often lose all attraction to the person they have lost love for. If you no longer seek intimacy, there is a good chance that you will stop loving your partner very quickly.
4. Focus on solutions
People who are in love with someone will work out their problems with their partner before they walk out the door. You bring up the subject as soon as you believe your partner might not be completely happy because you want to see them smile.
5. Believe in his/her concerns
A person in love will do almost anything to reassure their partner that things are okay. If they say they have a problem with something, a person who loves them will try to work things out with them, even if they don't fully understand why it's bothering them.
6. Don't give up when things aren't looking so good anymore.
It takes a lot of love for a person not to walk away when things are not going well. If you stand by your partner when they are sick, depressed, or down, you are showing them that you love them.
7. Make necessary compromises and don't use them against him/her.
Compromise, whether we admit it or not, is an act of love. It takes courage to be willing to put someone else's needs before your own. If compromise feels good inside you, then you love both yourself and your partner.
8. Listen and remember his/her words
Everyone listens to what their partner says, but few people actively listen. Do you listen and respond to what your significant other says? Do you listen, understand, and work with them? If so, you are showing them a very beautiful act of love.
9. Keep your mind, heart, and plans in mind.
When someone loves another person, they plan to be together for the long haul. If you stop keeping your partner in the big picture of your life, it's a sign that you no longer love them.
10. Don't tolerate anyone speaking badly about you.
A person in love will not allow anyone to speak badly about their partner, not even their family. The reason is because people have the desire to protect what they care about.
11. Put up with his/her annoying but harmless traits
It's hard to deny that we all have our flaws. If you tolerate some of your partner's negative aspects, this is a way to say you love them without saying it out loud.
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Source: YourTango
