Some children's behaviors can be difficult to understand, but they are often a call for more attention. If you notice the following signs, it's time to reflect on the time and focus you devote to them:
1. Noise and irritability - The child becomes loud, quarrelsome, or interrupts you often.
2. Disobedience - Indicates increased rebellion and refusal to follow rules.
3. Repeating questions - Asking the same question over and over, even though you know the answer.
4. Withdrawal from others - Isolates and avoids time with family.
5. Nervous breakdown - There are more frequent emotional outbursts.
6. Physical complaint - Complains of headache or stomach ache, often for no apparent reason.
7. Regressive behavior - Returns to old behaviors and disobeys
8. Refusal to correct - Continues unacceptable behavior, even after reprimand.
9. Addictive - Does not leave you and constantly seeks closeness.
Why might parents not understand these signs?
Everyday life is full of work, responsibility and often stress. After a long day, being emotionally present for children can seem like a challenge. Add in technology, cell phones, and the news, and it's easy to lose focus.
How to be more careful with children
* Attention to small details: Short but quality moments during the day, such as a conversation during a walk.
* Clear praise: Emphasize good actions, such as, "I like that you put the toys away."
* Give up technology: During time with the child, avoid cell phones to be fully present.
What you should avoid
* Punishment during emotional crises: Instead, help the child calm down with gentle words and advice.
* Disregarding privacy: Avoid being too controlling of their things or pressuring them to open up emotionally.
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