The singer Xhensila Myrtezaj has shown for the first time her side of the story regarding the divorce from the actor Bes Kallaku.
In a confession like never before, in front of moderator Arbana Osmani on the show "Mirëbrëma yje", Xhensila said that the separation was a decision made by herself.
The singer emphasized that for some time the pair had tried to overcome the 'crises' between them to make the marriage work, but added that words did not match actions.
Let's say that, between the lines, she let it be understood that the commitment was not mutual, so the relationship (which, according to Xhensila, turned out to be only giving without receiving anything), failed.
"For several years we had been trying to systematize the dissatisfaction in our marriage with the desire not to end it. But there is always a crisis in a couple. We hadn't decided yet if we wanted to be apart or together. But I think that in any relationship when actions and words do not have much compatibility, when there are arguments in the relationship, it becomes toxic. It becomes harmful for me, the children, and for him. So I made the decision to separate. A couple needs cooperation, it needs work from both partners. I understood that it should not be fought by only one side, but by both. It was a decision made by me. I had to do it as a step since I didn't see any other option. Divorce is not easy. Some steps, no matter how difficult, must find the courage to take them. I found strength in my children, because I wanted the children to have peace in the future," she said.
Further, Xhensila explained that she has chosen to remain silent because of the children, but it has cost her a lot.
"I took a lot of burden on my shoulders. What has not been said about me, what I have not read. But I can't change the world, I can't change their mindset," she said.
While Arbana pointed out that the other party has not done the same, referring to the song "Mosmirënjohja", Xhensila emphasized that it was a smart move to attract attention.
Although he emphasized that at no time did he feel it was a dedication to him, since the song did not describe the situation between them, Xhensila emphasized that he refuses to believe that Besi has chosen to make such a song to "attack" the mother of his children .
Above all, she emphasized that she made the decision to "protect" her two children from an unhealthy family environment, so she finds peace precisely in them. As she pointed out, it was children, music and faith in God that helped her get through this challenging period in many ways.
