True friendships are not built only on laughter, memories and late nights watching soap operas. Their secret is much deeper - and much more underrated: boundaries!
Why are boundaries everything in friendship?
Boundaries are like the invisible rules that keep things in balance. They tell us what is acceptable, when to stop, and how to care for each other's feelings. Setting boundaries doesn't make you cold - on the contrary, it makes you the friend everyone loves in life.
Imagine this: a friend tells you that it doesn't feel good when you include him or her in jokes with others. You listen, accept and apologize. This is the moment when your friendship becomes stronger, because communication and respect prevail.
On the other hand, not respecting boundaries can be a recipe for disaster. When a friend repeatedly hurts you without realizing it, the relationship turns into a time mine. Caution: where there is no respect for boundaries, there are no lasting friendships.
How to Set Healthy Boundaries (Drama-Free)
* Communicate clearly and directly. Start with "When X happens, I feel like this..."
* Respect the other person's boundaries. If a friend tells you that an action bothers them, listen without taking it personally.
* Be flexible, but don't let your standards be compromised.
Friendships that last for years are not about perfection, but about the ability to say: "This is what I need from you" - and to answer: "I respect it."
Friendships with healthy boundaries? The secret recipe we all need!
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