It may seem strange, but Monday is the most common day of breakups. And when you think about it, it probably makes sense: The stress of the start of the week can be a trigger that leads people to break up long-suffering relationships. Here are the top five factors that can signal an impending breakup:
1. Old stories don't leave you alone
The more ex-partners you've had, the easier it is for you to sense when something isn't right. Your mind may begin to compare difficult moments in the current relationship with past experiences: "This reminds me of what (X) did." Bitter lessons from past relationships may influence your decision to leave.
2. You are no longer managing the relationship like you used to
Communication, empathy and the ability to resolve conflicts are key to a long-lasting relationship. If these skills are lacking, don't be surprised when things go wrong. The better equipped you are to deal with emotional "earthquakes", the more likely you are to survive.
3. You have little or no desire to be involved in relationships
A relationship without a clear purpose is more likely to fall apart. If you're both not investing in the relationship it's much easier to see the nearest exit door. A tenuous commitment is often easier to break than one that has deeper roots.
4. Excessive control creates a "suffocating" feeling
Independent people (those who do not want their freedom to be infringed upon) often take the first step to part ways with their partner when they feel stifled. In contrast, people who are dependent on their partner and insecure about their feelings usually fear separation and struggle to maintain the relationship, even when they feel hopeless.
5. You are constantly tempted by "other options"
When you think you might have better opportunities, or when your relationship doesn't give you the enthusiasm it used to, you may be tempted to end the existing relationship and get involved in an exciting relationship.
If you feel that the relationship is faltering, stop for a moment and think: Is this a momentary fear or something deeper? And maybe, the next time you flip a coin to make the final decision, you know the answer within yourself before it hits the ground.
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