In a relationship, it's important to recognize when a man is being honest and when he's taking advantage of your emotions. Sometimes, people use these strategies for personal gain, be it emotional, financial or just for their own enjoyment. Here are five signs that someone is taking advantage of you.
It is always ambiguous
At the beginning of a relationship, every conversation and meeting seems magical. But when it comes to making decisions or discussing the future, he always finds ways to avoid clear discussions. This ambiguity often leaves you with the feeling that you are not a priority and creates insecurity.
How to cope with this:
Be clear about what you want and don't be afraid to talk about your feelings. Relationships should be based on open communication and mutual respect.
He only contacts you when it suits him
If he only texts or calls you when he needs something or when he's free, regardless of your schedule or needs, it shows a lack of respect for your time and life.
How to cope with this:
Set boundaries and respect your time and emotions. Put yourself first and don't allow yourself to always feel available to someone who doesn't respect you.
He manipulates situations in his favor
People who use others often try to present themselves as the victim in any situation, making you feel guilty even for things that are not your fault. This is a form of manipulation that can damage your self-confidence.
How to cope with this:
Don't question things you're sure you've seen. Don't let someone twist reality and blame you for everything.
It asks for support, but it doesn't help you when you need it
A healthy relationship is based on mutual support. If he always expects you to be there for him, but when you need help he isn't, it shows a lack of commitment.
How to cope with this:
A relationship should be balanced. If you're feeling tired and unsupported, it's time to reconsider whether this relationship is healthy for you.
He doesn't respect your time and emotions
Someone who uses you will not care how you feel. The person will act based on their own interests and will not consider your emotions and needs.
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