We all want to give gifts that bring happiness, but did you know that some gifts are believed to bring you bad energy? Since ancient times, people have believed in myths about gifts that bring bad luck. It may seem funny, but there are some gifts that you better avoid if you don't like to see frozen smiles on the face of the one you are giving it to.
1. Perfume – Scent that lingers...but not always positively
Although perfume seems like a nice gift, it can be misunderstood if the partner does not like the scent. In addition, some people believe that donating a perfume can bring about a breakup.
2. Motivational books - The purpose of the gift may be misinterpreted
An advice/motivational book may appear to be suggesting that the partner needs "fixes" or improvements. This can cause misunderstood feelings and create tension in the relationship.
3. Scarf and gloves - Symbolize the closure of relationships
In some countries, it is believed that the scarf and gloves can symbolize the "wrapping" or "closing" of relationships. Although it sounds like an urban legend, it is better not to give something that can "connect" the person to some misfortune!
4. Clothes that don't match the style - "I like you, but change your outfit!"
Choosing clothes for your partner is a dangerous game. If the choice doesn't match his style, it might sound like you're suggesting he needs to change his look.
5. Reflections – 7 years of continuity or doubling of problems?
An LED mirror may seem like an elegant gift, but there are people who believe that it can bring bad luck by "doubling" the problems. Is it worth the risk?
6. Gifts with bees and butterflies - "Poison" for the relationship?
Figures of bees or butterflies may look sweet, but some say they bring trouble. Bees that sting and butterflies that fly away symbolize love that runs away or friendship that is "stung" by gossip. Buying a bunch of flowers in this case would probably be the safest choice.
After all, myths are just myths, and probably most of them are just old beliefs that don't hold much weight today. But if you can avoid a gift that could possibly be misunderstood, why not? There are always other gifts that carry no "risk", and the end, the gesture and the good intention are what count the most. So, the next time you're shopping for a gift, it's probably best to avoid the above options.
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