The summer, beach season is near and with it comes the wave of singles who are looking for new acquaintances and romances. Beyond meeting in bars or mutual friendships, there is also that online space where many people can find their soulmate.
But privacy expert Trevor Cooke warns girls and boys not to let their desire prevent them from spotting five red flags that could indicate they're talking to a potential stalker.
Here are the most distinctive signs:
#1 Aggressively persistent
If you receive constant messages, even after you've indicated that you're busy or need your space, this may indicate an unhealthy obsession. This behavior can escalate into an incessant need for communication, leaving you feeling overwhelmed or emotionally blocked.
#2 Unpredictable behavior
If the person's actions change drastically from loving and respectful to something hostile or they react suddenly to a small issue, it can lead to more dangerous and unstable behavior in the future.
#3 Unwarranted invitations
People should be aware that the stalker can track your movements, which is a clear invasion of privacy and a potential threat to your security.
#4 Excessive questions
One of the basics of dating is getting to know someone by asking questions, but there is a way to do it. If someone on the other end of the phone asks you bold, almost "invasive" questions about your daily routine, lifestyle, financial status, or past relationships, this could be a sign that they are gathering information to manipulate you.
#5 Controlling tendencies
A controlling partner will want to know where you are at all times, who you're spending time with, where you've been, etc. Any behavior that seeks to limit your autonomy or isolate you from friends and family is a huge red flag.
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