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Why shouldn't you tell your child "yes" to everything?

Why shouldn't you tell your child "yes" to everything?
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There is a parenting style that defines those parents who allow their children to do whatever they want, without considering whether their behavior is age appropriate or excessive.

These parents are not bad and should not be considered as such, regardless of their choices. Psychologists point out that some of them have such behavioral tendencies for fear of getting caught up in the vortex of old ways of parenting that do not give children the right freedom. Or they are simply afraid that the child will get bored.

But why is this way of parenting wrong?

Therapists emphasize that it is very important for the child to hear the word "no" and have limits, as their worldview and analytical ability is developing, making it impossible for them to make the right decisions on certain issues.

When parents allow their children to do whatever they want, they lose the opportunity to learn how to protect themselves and how to solve problems cooperatively. Moreover, these children never learn about the compromises you have to make in life. Such details are learned over time and imprinted early on in the child's character. The lack of development of these qualities makes life very difficult for them growing up and above all in social interaction with peers or older people.

Psychologists advise parents to pay attention to themselves in the first place, to stop such behaviors, thinking about the reason why they are caused. If you can't find a solution yourself, you can ask for professional help.

 

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