If you have a friend or close friend, you probably found yourself at least once in a situation where he/she started a new relationship and you didn't know what to say. The reason is simple: You don't like your new partner and you don't know how to tell him so as not to hurt his feelings.
Relationship expert Louella Alderson, interviewed by Pop Sugar, suggests that the first step you should take is to be a good listener. You should always show respect and support for your friends, regardless of their choices. If you are a good listener you can understand their perspective and why they are making certain choices.
Consequently, you will build better arguments to help your friends. Here Alderson emphasizes that you should not be too assertive. At the end of the day, the decision is only in their hands and you have an advisory role.
In some cases, when you feel that your perspective does not change, you may grit your teeth to say nothing. By doing this you will preserve the company and avoid some problems. Remember that having different opinions is not a sign of problems in your society.
But, Alderson points out that based on how a relationship is built, a strong discussion of this nature can disrupt a society if its foundations are not strong.
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