You may be enjoying singleness, or you may be in undesirable romantic conditions, so you are left "alone".
But, if you are going to get out of that situation and find the right partner, you must first find out why you are single. Science says the main reasons are:
- Maybe you won't be connected
Despite the societal pressure, there are some people who really enjoy being single. If you find yourself on this list, you don't have to do anything to change the situation.
- Getting to know someone is not your priority
Maybe you are too busy. Maybe the career is getting more attention than anything else. There's nothing wrong with that, but it could be that you're using everything in everyday life as a distraction from your romantic life. If this is what is happening, you need to take action and review decisions.
- Fear of rejection
Yes, love can be scary sometimes. Taking risks comes with the fear of rejection. Since our brains and bodies are built to protect us from repeating mistakes, when we have experienced a disappointment, we tend to fear not to put ourselves in the same situation.
- You choose the wrong partners
If you've experienced several disappointments, let's just say that the future looks a little darker and singleness tastes better.
- Unsolved problems from the past
Maybe you have a messy childhood, or a painful adolescence. Science has proven that the past becomes a burden that prevents you from seeing clearly present situations and making decisions.
- You are very lonely
You always find something wrong with the person who is bullying you. No one is good enough for you. Did you know that this could be your problem more than the person you're dating? Relationships and love are work in progress and perfection does not exist.
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