If you use TikTok, there's no way that the videos of the girls staying at home and doing all the housewives would have escaped, but the videos in question emphasize the fact that they are someone's girlfriend, who works and provides income.
With more than 37 million views, these videos are endlessly liked, followed and commented on. This trend has received so much attention that the New York Post and The Wall Street Journal dedicated articles to it, treating it as "the life intended by the Gen Z generation".
@kendelkay i dream of feminine leisure???????
? Moon River (From Breakfast at Tiffany's) [Long Version] - Audrey Hepburn / Henry Mancini
But as many people in the comments have stated, the life of a stay-at-home girlfriend is dangerous and unstable.
"It's beautiful until he breaks up with you," some wrote. So it's time to talk about this trend.
"If you give someone the power to feed you, he will also have the power to leave you hungry," says a popular girl on TikTok who spent 3 years of her life as a "stay-at-home girlfriend."
Influencer Bella Greenlee says she doesn't suggest this choice and explains that she's lucky she was young when she started that life, because when the relationship ends, she has the chance to start over.
@zizzysizzle Heed my words….. #stayathomewifey ? original sound - Bella
In practice, it is never the best choice to hang your life in someone else's hands. Whoever he/she is.
Bella emphasizes that financial independence is the most important for every girl and woman, as she emphasizes that the separation left her between 4 paths.
Adding to the experience the pain of separation as an emotional factor, the influencer admits that the experience taught her a lot.
Psychologists on the other hand emphasize that such relationships based on money are used to dominate the person without income. This dominance, in the worst case, is followed by emotional and physical abuse and abuse, and you are likely to become a victim who cannot leave the relationship.
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