Every couple's relationship is different, but women seem to want more and more tools available to them to empower their capacity to identify unfaithful partners.
Cheating comes in all shapes and colors, but some signs are more warning than others. Here are the red flags that should worry you if your partner does these behaviors and more!
#1 He's on the phone all the time
Relationships in a couple require a lot of communication, but if your partner chooses instead to stay on the phone, make small talk, exchange messages while not giving you access to email or phone passwords, then these signs should alert you. alarm.
#2 Makes a "tail" to things
If he sidesteps any of your direct questions, be careful! Avoidance is the best "weapon" in a traitor's arsenal.
#3 Choose quarrels over solutions
If you suspect that your partner is cheating on you, he will immediately go on the defensive. Like narcissists, they may try to distract you with an argument by excusing themselves for everything.
#4 Protects his stuff or just gets bored
Just like fighting to distract from real concerns, one of the most obvious signs that your boyfriend is cheating is when you notice a change in his emotions and the way he reacts to certain situations. Defensiveness or annoyance are indicators of this.
#5 Your friends have noticed his strange behavior
Whether or not you can spot the signs of infidelity in your relationship, friends are often the ones who draw your attention to the changes they notice in him. It's often third parties that open your eyes!
#6 He looks at other women
If you often catch yourself looking at other women, their dresses, the way they are dressed, be careful because almost sexist comments about unknown girls are not a good sign.
#7 There are signs of mystery in what he does with his time
In healthy relationships, both partners feel free to pursue individual passions and interests. They balance independence, beyond intimacy. But when you often don't know what your partner does in his free time, where he is or you don't communicate for several hours, then this is a red flag.
#8 Fade of romanticism
Cheating is often a cycle of guilt and pleasure. If you used to see roses on the table, plane tickets to Italy or love letters, which you haven't seen for a long time, then this is another sign of his fading feelings for you. Or someone else has taken a place in his heart.
#9 He is emotionally distant from you
Intimacy is a cornerstone of any healthy relationship, but it suddenly turns into a concern if there is emotional or physical distance. If he does not meet his emotional needs, even in the sexual aspect, he has probably found a new society that "charges" him in this aspect.
#10 Ready to build "steel towers" of love?
If you have not been cheated on before and you suspect that your partner is doing something like this, this may be the ideal time for a serious conversation. Remind yourself a betrayal is not just the end of a relationship or divorce, but why not a step to build a new tower of steel for you and your partner.
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