Conversations about this topic are becoming more and more open and not only in the framework of close friends, among female friends or only with trusted persons. It seems that among the conversations about sex there are also many common misconceptions that are rooted in the ideas, messages or debates that take place around it.
Surely, once you get clear about these 10 misconceptions, your sex life can be better than ever before.
#1 Your Partner's Pleasure Matters More Than Yours : Many women learn growing up that they must put the needs of others first, and that includes the sexual needs of others. In fact, a couple should take care of their own sexual satisfaction, as well as their partner's.
#2 Your partner must know how to please you: Good sex is a skill and most of us, regardless of gender, don't have the proper education or methods to take the act to the next level. The best way to have a super experience in bed is to talk about your desires and passions with each other.
#3 You have to have a perfect body to be sexually worthy: The way your body looks has nothing to do with how you feel sexually or the pleasure you can get from the act. We all deserve erotic excitement and intimate experiences, no matter how sexy others think we are.
#4 Painful act is normal: Pain during intercourse is a silent epidemic among women, which is now being talked about more openly. The causes of pain are different from lubrication, infections, traumas, etc. You just need to talk to your gynecologist.
#5 You shouldn't ask for what you want in the bedroom : We shouldn't be ashamed when we are with the person we love in bed. Cultivating the idea of ??awareness to talk about insecurities, experiences and desires should be a standard among couples.
#6 Consent must be acceptable: Don't settle for sex with partners who violate boundaries and will ignore your wishes.
#7 There is a "right" way to have sex: The options for sexual experiences are many, but we learn a specific and limited way to 'have sex' with the partner we want. So the act is very personal, there are no ready-made recipes!
#8 There is a unit of measurement for the frequency of sexual act: There is no normal way to experience sexual desires, regardless of gender. If you have spontaneous desire, or if your desire pattern is more responsive, these are all normal. It is all a matter of desire and not the number.
#9 It only depends on your partner how much he can turn you on: You must first take responsibility for your desires, then project them onto your partner.
#10 Women only experience orgasm from vaginal penetration: This misconception is fueled by scenes in erotic films and more. According to studies, about 20% of women are able to experience orgasm from penetration alone. Most women look for other methods for more pleasure in bed.
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