Heidi Baçi has spoken for the first time about her relationship with Massimiliano Varrese in 'Grande Fratello'. After being asked the question: "Is your game with Romeo the same as the one in "Grande Fratello"?", referring to the relationship she is creating with Romeo Veshajn.
Heidi said that she made a mistake and that nothing happened to Massimilliano.
"That situation was very different. I had pressure in that house and actually, I made a mistake. I didn't have the strength to share some things and I fell into a trap where I had the whole house against me at that moment. In fact, nothing happened to that man. I'm sorry for using it, but it's completely unrelated. It is an extremely far situation, since I was bad there, now I have changed. It was something subtle that became a big topic all over Italy and it has nothing to do with the relationship with Romeo, which is very pure, beautiful and makes me happy," she said.
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A reminder of what happened in "Grande Fratello":
Heidi, during her stay in "Grande Fratello", created a relationship with the actor Massimiliano Varrese, 47 years old. This relationship infuriated Heidi's father, Ghent, who met his daughter to tell him that he was wrong and should drop the report.
"I came here because I love you. Your wrong choice surprised us. Mom and I are shocked and devastated. You and a man older than me who will be retiring soon. I don't know you anymore," were the words of Ghent, who described Massimiliano as a violent and manipulative man.
"You failed to put up a wall with a person who causes you stress. Mom doesn't look at you from that moment on. I'm here because I won't let anyone treat my daughter badly. I don't allow anyone to violate her dignity."
After his words, Heidi confronted Massimiliano, saying among other things: "I respect you, I admire you, you are not violent. My father does not like to see someone who has an oppressive attitude towards me. The conclusion is always the same: consent was, I was fascinated by you, but let's end it. We are different people."
She decided to leave the race "for personal reasons", although followers have agreed that the reason was the fear of disappointing her mother and father. “Now I understand what Heidi was afraid of and it's not me. She will surely be afraid of her father's judgment," said the 47-year-old.
Gent's behavior was severely criticized on social networks. Despite the fact that some pointed out, according to them, the "manipulative" behaviors of Massimiliano, many were those who condemned the father's decision to control Heidi's life.
Heidi also had a showdown through the cameras with the Italian actor. "I have nothing more to say. The tears you saw are those of a person who heard your father's harsh words. Not wanting to comment or make the situation worse, I couldn't vent verbally or otherwise, so I exploded. My mistake was overestimating Heidi's sensitivity," Varresse said at the time.
Heidi returned to the actor: "I have supported you many times, I have understood you, I have come to your aid and despite this, I have also asked you to withdraw somehow, but you did not. He used the opposite psychology, that of ignoring in a house where we lived together."
Massimiliano followed it up with the words: “Whatever you say is fine. You can say whatever you want. We will talk about it…”
But, she ended the conversation by saying: "No, we will not talk about this anymore. I am trying to close it. I don't want any more contact and I want you to stop talking about me, my father and my family without knowing the truth".
Then, in an interview for "Verissimo", Heidi said: "At first I was intrigued by Massimiliano. A handsome, charming man, he had this air of a serious, knowledgeable, wise man. So my words referred to a first impression".
Following:
Then the situation changed. Because falling in love in three weeks, at least from my point of view, is impossible. Also, because I have rejected him many times. I just wanted a civil, cohabiting relationship with him, where within a reality show it's so nice to play the game. Then, it became an obsession that I couldn't handle. I called it an unhealthy relationship, there was no freedom left," said Heidi.
She said that it was he who had ruined this experience, as she blamed herself for not being able to put up high walls and be tougher and more determined in relation to him: "Massimiliano is unfortunately a restless soul and these are things that I i can't fix them. I have closed it with him," she concluded.
