Last night in "BBVA 3" entered Endrik Beba, who has been connected with Sara Gjorden (something we have not seen, because for years, Lorenc Hasrama, Keisi Meidin's ex entered the house and became part of the competition ), but the problem is that last night Sara sealed the relationship with singer Bardhi with a kiss.
When Endrik's presentation clip was shown, obviously, Sara did not receive it very well and made some facial expressions. While Bardhi, for his part, suggested not to panic and not to react if he is provoked.
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But of course, we all know that human relationships are more complicated than that, so we agree that the appearance of an ex in anyone's life is awkward, not only for the person who has the ex, but also for the lover. the new one. What to do in such a case?
Change your mindset
Look, we understand that there is a whole sea between what is said and done, but seriously, you have to change your mindset because you know that difficult conditions call for difficult solutions. You do your part to keep the relationship healthy and happy. The best thing you can do is understand that there is a reason why the person is an ex. They broke up, he/she chose you and the rest is history. Remember this whenever you feel insecure or jealous.
Set boundaries
This is very important. Boundaries should be set even if the ex doesn't show up. Set your limits and tell the other person. If you don't want them to talk, exchange jokes, or start sentences like: "Do you remember when...", express it openly and clearly.
Rate your current relationship
We know, we get it! Seeing the ex of the person with whom you are connected brings a mix of feelings, however, you, with complete calm, asked yourself a question: "How important is the relationship to me?". If you see that your lover has no desire and attempt to rekindle the sparks of the past, move on without spoiling the relationship.