If you've been in a relationship for many years, you've probably experienced a period when sex wasn't as frequent as you'd like. If you haven't tried it yet, it probably will at some point, so read these tips to not let a lack of intimacy cloud your entire relationship outlook.
For starters, it's very normal to have less sex when you've been in a relationship for a long time. The more you get caught up in the other details of everyday life, from work and finances to children, the less time you seem to have for other pleasures. So, first of all, don't worry because your relationship is fine.
Psychologists are increasingly encouraging couples to put sex on the calendar. Sit down with your partner, talk about your relationship, be open to admit and discuss together the reasons why you have less sex, and remind yourself of all the positive emotions you get from intimacy.
Besides scheduling will free up space for more sex and give it its rightful place, through this rule, you will understand more about your relationship as a couple.
And if you're one of those people who thinks good sex is spontaneous, just take a look at your weekly to-do list and see how many of the things you want or need to do are spontaneous.
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