Once in our lives, most of us have found ourselves in such a position when the person with whom the friend/close friend started a relationship did not like them.
Just like Ross in the 22nd episode of the third season of "Friends", when Rachel introduced her new boyfriend, played by Ben Stiller. Remember when no one believed Ross about the bad behavior of the new person who joined the group?
Surely you too have been to Ross' place once or twice. But what should you do in those cases?
You can have many reasons in mind why you don't like your friend's partner, but if you don't have something objective to support your opinion, you need to have an educated approach to it. In this case, you have to be careful with the language and the tone you use when you talk about him, in short, don't insult him behind his back, because you never know where a rumor can end up.
To make peace with the fact that your loved one will continue this relationship without your approval, you must not let your desires and dreams for your ideal partner (wife) get in the way.
However, there are also moments when you should definitely talk to your friend about your partner. To come to a conclusion about a person, even when you only have the sixth sense as an argument, it is good to be a good observer of the behavior of the person in question towards your loved one. If he is a negative person and does not behave properly, with the coldness of the arguments that should be shown in serious cases, you can have a one-on-one conversation with your friend, where you list all the things that you found to be wrong. It could be a habit, a behavior, criticism, or any sign that the relationship could quickly become toxic.
Love may be blind, but friendship is not, so your role as a friend will always be to protect your beloved friend, especially when you see the signs of an abusive relationship.
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