Sex is a matter of pleasure, so it doesn't matter how much you want it, it should be totally mutual. It doesn't always happen like this, sometimes the partner doesn't like it, doesn't even have plans, so it's good to react like this:
1. Don't take it personally
When he/she says that he/she is not happy, of course the first feeling is uncertainty, even more so if this is the first time it has happened. Anyway, don't panic. It is not necessarily a lack of interest that the partner will not have intercourse. It could just be tired or bored.
2. Answer calmly
There could be hundreds of reasons why he won't have intercourse today. Bad day at work, stress in the family, a fight with friends or something else. Talk to him without being sarcastic or annoying. Show that you understand.
3. Be playful and leave an open invitation
This way you will reduce the tension created and make it easier for your partner later. When he's in the mood, he should just join you! Communication saves everything.
4. Masturbate
Solo sex is a good alternative when the partner does not want to. You can even do it in front of his eyes.
5. Give it a chance by giving it time
Just because it's not ready now doesn't mean it won't be ready in 30 minutes. Wait and see what happens.
6. Connect through other ways.
Just because you're not having sex doesn't mean you can't be intimate. Exchange messages, take a shower together, or just cuddle. This can bring you even closer.
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