Enxhi Nasufi, before her performance on "DWTS", talked about the traumas and scars that her parents' divorce has left in her life.
She started the story by saying that her parents have divorced twice:
"In 2001, when I was 6 years old, I experienced the second divorce of my parents, because they had divorced before, but they got back together, to try once more for the child, if things went better, but they didn't went better".
He also showed the traumas:
"Certain events at such a young age, maybe create difficulties at certain moments, because you have trauma, you have unhealed wounds, fights, screams, even today I can't stand the noises and I know it's a something left over from my childhood".
The contestant of "DWTS" also talked about the absence of her father and showed that she had to be like a son in certain cases.
"Of course, I have felt the lack of a male figure as my father could have been during my upbringing, because for many years he did not live here at all."
"Sometimes I get upset when they tell me: "Oh, you look like a chick", "You look like a chick". People should understand that I had to be like a Chun".
With tears in her eyes, Enxhi said that she will not hurt her parents, as they are affected, but added that she has forgiven them with her awareness.
"With my consciousness I have forgiven him, I don't know what I have in my subconscious and what is left, but consciously I have never blamed him, because that's how things were. They have done as much as they could possibly do, as much as they possibly knew. I just think that parents should be a little more careful with their children."
She said that children understand everything, even if they can't say it, and their parents' actions leave a mark on them.
"I grew up a bit with this expression: "Hey, you don't understand", but the child understands everything, even the baby. Even if he does not speak, even if he does not explain what he feels, he experiences it all and things remain in his mind and body. Imagine how much work that child needs throughout his life to heal himself, work with himself and process the wounds of his parents."
"It's the first time they've been together for "DWTS." If I'm not mistaken, the last time they were together to see me in something artistic was in kindergarten", she continued and further said that she dedicates the performance to herself as a child and to herself in these moments, mom, dad, people who live and have been in her life.
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