Sex is a whole universe of pleasure or frustration…depending on what myth you believe. Today, to help you enjoy your sexual experiences, we're helping you break some myths.
Myth 1: What you're looking for on erotic websites is what you want in bed
Truth: Porn is fantasy. Porn is created for your entertainment and enjoyment, but it doesn't mean that you will necessarily become reality of everything you see there. For example, if you see a lesbian video once, that does not make you a gay woman. The same goes for men. Enjoy your alone time and explore your fantasies.
Myth 2: Sex is only good if it ends in an orgasm
Truth: An orgasm is just a bonus, not the goal. Many people feel pressured to experience an orgasm to show their partner that they are enjoying the experience. This pressure increases anxiety, takes the focus away from feelings and causes negative thoughts. Feeling pressured to have an orgasm eventually reduces the pleasure and likelihood of having an orgasm. The purpose of sex is pleasure! An orgasm does not mean that sex is good. But if you experience it ... good for you.
Myth 3: All orgasms feel the same and should be an explosive experience
Truth: There are many different types of orgasms. Just to name a few: clitoral, vaginal, anal, erogenous, combined…the list goes on. Every orgasm feels a little different. For example, a clitoral orgasm feels more like a tingling sensation on the surface of the skin, while a vaginal orgasm pulses the pelvic muscles around the vagina.
Myth 4: A woman gets excited if she is naturally lubricated
Truth: A woman can be fully aroused but not "wet". There are many reasons why women do not wet themselves during sex. This may be due to medical reasons, the timing of her cycle, decreased estrogen, etc. If this has happened to you, it is common. If this is happening repeatedly and causing pain during intercourse or challenges in your sex life, consult your gynecologist. Just in case, I keep a lube in the drawer.
Myth 5: The bigger the penis, the better the sex
The truth: Totally a myth! It has nothing to do with penis size; it's about how you use it. There is a societal tendency that "bigger is better", but this is not necessarily the case.
What matters is how you use your penis! Whatever the size of the penis, I find positions for you and your partner to enjoy. Don't forget to stimulate all erogenous zones.
Sex is a physical and mental act. Challenge the myths you've heard, continue to educate yourself on your body, and make the sex conversation a routine.
