Based on the extraordinary interest in why Ledri was not by Sara's side on the red carpet, for the promotion of the film "In the frame of love", as well as the last interview of the Veshaj twins with Sara, the question naturally arises: "Why are we so interested, even to the point of obsession with the lives and relationships of VIPs?.
Sara, invited to "Let me talk" , clearly said that she will not talk about the subject of "Leather and the red carpet", when the boys asked her why he was not present. The moderator asked her again if everything is ok and Sarah replied that yes, nothing to worry about, she just won't talk about this issue again and rightly so, as this topic has been discussed so many times that they were forgotten all the problems the world is experiencing at the moment.
Anyway, even after writing the interview excerpt, our question still stands, so we're giving a few more reasons why we're so fond of celebrity relationships.
Presocial relationships
Our desire to know everything about the personal lives of VIPs can be related to "presocial relationships", which according to the psychological concept are explained as one-sided relationships, where one person invests emotional energy, interest and time in another person, while the latter has no idea that this man exists. This is a relationship that is created with famous personalities.
This leads people to devote themselves to the life of the famous person, to know everything, especially about romantic relationships. The details, the drama, how they connected, where the first meeting was, how they feel about each other, the small gestures, the looks in their eyes, everything is of interest to nurture this "parasocial connection".
Escaping Our Lives
Another reason is because the lives and relationships of VIPs serve as a form of escapism for ordinary people.
"People like fantasy because it helps them escape from their lives," says therapist Kimberly Hershenson. She added: "Looking at the relationships of famous people, we create something new that we pay attention to."
We learn new things.
The Sara-Ledri relationship, or the complicated relationship between Will Smith and Jada, all teach us other aspects, which we didn't necessarily know.
"VIPs put career before relationships, or talk too much about their relationships. Both can cause problems, or teach us how to see things from a different perspective," says Hershenson.
But we get fixated, spend time and take an interest in their lives also because we understand that they, despite the fame or money, just like all people go through our challenges and problems. “The biggest challenges in a relationship are related to communication problems; inability to resolve conflicts; different ways of parenting; sex; career. "Money doesn't buy happiness, and fame and the stress it brings are another factor for problems in these relationships," concludes the therapist.
We postpone the time.
This is another reason. You are on your social networks, you see an article or a video of an interview of a famous person, who talks about romantic relationships, open it, see it or read it. Then you persevere, do some more research, and realize that it's been hours since you've dealt with something like this. Thus, from curiosity and the desire to delay time, an obsession with the lives and relationships of others begins.
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