If you are looking to take your relationship to a new level and at the same time give your partner the chance to "undress" the complexes and show 100%, these 7 questions come into play: What is the secret that
still you didn't tell me?
Your partner doesn't necessarily have to tell you every secret of his/her life for you to have a healthy relationship, but sharing some secrets creates a stronger emotional bond.
According to relationship expert Caitlyn Paltsios: "One of the best ways to grow as a couple is to know each other's secrets." Of course, you have to consider giving the other person the right time, space and comfort.
What did you want to do, but for various reasons we didn't?
"This is an intimate question and it shows that you are a person open to possibilities," says Paltsios. Also, it is a question that shows that as a couple, you are ready to experiment and test the barriers and limits of your relationship. The question may refer to sexual intercourse and may be extended to other aspects.
Favorite thing you did as a child?
Questions related to childhood can be very personal for some people, but according to Lesli Doares, couples therapist, a question that does not target possible traumas is a very good way to get to know him better and awaken his feelings. nostalgia to the other person.
What would you change in your relationship with your parents?
The relationship a person has with his parents says a lot about him. Unlike the previous question, this one digs deep into the insecurities, regrets, and fears the person experienced in childhood. Although it is a difficult question, it still reveals the way people feel about their family and how they can see themselves as a parent in the future, explains Samantha Morrison, an expert at the Glacier Wellness Center.
Something your parents don't know about you?
This question may not reveal any big, dark secret, but it tells a lot about the person's personality, whether they had an open relationship with their parents, were a rebellious person, or even misunderstood by their family members.
Do you believe in karma?
Ndërsa kjo, është një mënyrë interesante se si mund të niset një bisedë, pasi tregon nëse partneri/ja është i/e ndërgjegjshëm/me për pasojat e veprimeve të tij/saj. “A beson te karma” është një pyetje që të çon në biseda të rëndësishme për besimet dhe vlerat e përbashkëta.
A ke ndonjë pendesë në lidhjet e mëparshme romantike?
Pyetja në fjalë të lidh më shumë me personin tjetër, sepse tregon për ëndrrat, kujtimet dhe shpresat që ky person ka. Thjesht, ki parasysh që ta bësh pyetjen kur partneri/ja të ndihet vërtet komod dhe të mos ‘overthink’ nëse personi tjetër zgjedh të mos përgjigjet për momentin.
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