As is normal for all people, the weight of Bebe Rexha and many other women changes over the years. But, unfortunately, it seems that different people (especially on social networks), do not know that weight and kilograms do not define either the values ??or the beauty of someone.
Today Bebe Rexha made a reaction on Twitter, taking the trigger from the TikTok search bar, which reads "Bebe Rexha's weight". She said she's not upset because it's true that she's gained a few pounds, but the fact that people are looking for it and the algorithm shows it upsets her. She also thanked the people who love her despite everything.
Seeing that search bar is so upsetting. I'm not mad because it's true. I did gain weight. But it just sucks. Thank you to all the people who love me no matter what. pic.twitter.com/EGkGybhcRY
— Bebe Rexha (@BebeRexha) April 16, 2023
Clearly, it is very unfair that society still expects women to focus on a weight set by a certain standard. Bodies vary, have different shapes and lengths, so they cannot be the same. But, it is even more right that women are reacting to the numerous and tactless comments made to their bodies. Bebe published another post and said that she is working on her body, but she really likes to eat.
I've always struggled with my weight. A bitch likes to eat.
— Bebe Rexha (@BebeRexha) April 16, 2023
Disa ditë më parë, Ariana Grande u detyrua të bënte një sqarim për komentet që thoshin se këngëtarja është nënpeshë, duke theksuar se shëndeti ka pamje dhe forma të ndryshme. Por, ne e dimë (dhe në shumë raste jemi hasur) që ka shumë komente të tilla vërdallë, të cilat bëhen çdo ditë, me apo pa qëllim dhe besojmë se duhet që këtyre opinioneve t’u vihet fre. Nuk duhet që të lexojmë postimet e Bebe Rexhës, apo të dëgjojmë videon e Ariana Grande-s që të kuptojmë se nuk duhet të flasim për peshën dhe trupin e të tjerëve, qofshin ata mbi apo nënpeshë.
Gjithashtu, nëse përballesh me komente të tilla çdo ditë, mund të kthesh këto përgjigje:
1. Po, e di, kam pasqyrë
Nëse unë shëndoshem/dobësohem e di më mirë se të gjithë. Fundja është trupi im, pasqyrë kam, e shoh gjithçka, edhe më mirë se ti.
2. Më hahet një trileçe
This happens when you're talking to me.
3. Smile and look him straight in the eye
This is a psychological trick that makes the other person keep quiet and think that there is something wrong with them.
4. It seems to me that you do too
Yes yes, if they are rude, return the same coin.
5. Are you eating your meals?
If you're fat, it's your body and your responsibility, and the person in front of you should understand it once and for all.
6. Are you okay? That I feel like he's poking his nose into my life
That way they will understand that they are overdoing it.
7. Uh, even?
What is abnormal?
