Kela Huta got into a pretty aggressive debate with some followers on her Instagram profile, who criticized her for her decisions as a mother.
It all started when Klea published a video from Dubai as she was having difficulty changing the diaper of her son, Kridi, because there were no dedicated spaces for mothers with children.
"What do you do with children, I don't understand, when you are too lazy to teach them?! Be careful, woman, night and day, you take the child to the toilet because it's a sin," someone writes. "The commentator is right about God," says another. "It is not at all normal for the child to be in diapers at that age," reads another message addressed to the moderator.
In June of this year, Krid turns 3 years old. In a video on Instagram, Klea said, among other things:
"I feel sorry for these people. They do not affect me at all in the way I want to raise Kridi and how I want him to be educated. I am glad that there is a much wider community that writes to me - not that supports me, because I do not need support at this point that for the child I know how I do things and what is best for him - but I'm happy that there are people who have advanced, who raise their children without violence and trauma. That they raise children by teaching them to do things when the child is ready, not when the parents want."
Klea ka të drejtë në deklaratën e saj. Për shkak se çdo fëmijë zhvillohet me ritmin e vet, mosha kur një fëmijë do të ndalojë përdorimin e pelenave mund të ndryshojë shumë. Shumica e fëmijëve janë gati të nisin “stërvitjen” për përdorimin e tualitetit midis moshës 18 dhe 24 muajshe, megjithëse disa mund të mos jenë gati edhe më vonë.
Një fëmijë zakonisht është gati të mos përdorë pelenat kur është në gjendje të komunikojë nevojën e tij për të shkuar në tualet, mund të ndjekë udhëzime të thjeshta dhe të tregojë interes për uturakun. Disa fëmijë nuk mund të qëndrojnë plotësisht pa pelena deri pas moshës 4-vjeçare.
It should be noted that every child is different and there is no set age at which a child should stop using diapers. Parents should be patient and supportive in this process. If you have concerns, it's always a good idea to talk to your pediatrician for guidance and advice.
