1. They are not ready to talk openly about finances
One of the telltale signs that something is wrong with them is when they refuse to talk about their finances, especially when asked directly. The first feeling that arises when they avoid such questions is that they are hiding something.
By talking about different experiences related to finances, you get to know the person in front of you better and create a clearer picture of him. We are not talking here about his economic status or wealth, but about his approach to money, its management or even about the loans he has needed during his life.
2. They use money to control you
If someone uses money to manipulate you, walk away because they are clearly trying to buy you. Usually such partners make you feel bad about the gifts they gave you, about the money they spent on you, or on the other hand they try to "fix" their mistakes by offering you money or other material things.
3. Shame, embarrassment or manipulation has no place when discussing finances with your partner
If they make you feel bad about your financial situation or say things that make you feel uncomfortable, switch partners. It's not who you thought it was. A good partner would understand you, would never judge you based on your financial situation and would even try to help you make money.
4. Are hungry for attention/superficial things
Another "red flag" is the desire to live a luxurious life in public just to impress others. Sometimes this comes unwittingly from great wealth passed down through the generations, but most of the time it's just a short-lived pile because such desires will NOT make you "rich". Pay attention to how they talk about money and decisions related to it. You will understand a lot.
5. They are stingy
You have never seen them leave a tip in a restaurant and it is a sign that "screams" something about their nature. It says a lot about someone how they treat the people they serve and tipping is the best way to understand it.
6. You are not clear about their career or financial goals
Shumë njerëz që në takimet e para pyesin për qëllimet e së ardhmes, apo se ku e sheh veten pas 5 vitesh. Pyetje të tilla bëhen për të kuptuar potencialin e partnerit përballë dhe ambicien e tij dhe nëse vini re shmangie, do ta keni më të vështirë për të mësuar nëse përputheni ose jo.
7. Pyesni si duan ta kalojnë kohën e lirë
Duke ditur këtë ju kuptoni më shumë për filozofinë e tyre me paranë dhe shijimin e jetës. Sa i fiksuar është pas punës/karrierës dhe a përshtatet kjo me stilin tënd të jetës.
8. Kanë probleme me borxhet
Të gjithë në një pikë të jetës mund të ndodhen ngushtë nga ana financiare, por borxhet janë çështje që duhen parë me kujdes dhe mbi të gjitha arsyet pse i janë dashur. Situatat ndryshojnë nga njëra tek tjetra, por jini vigjilente. Borxhet që vijnë si pasojë e veseve mund të shaktojnë probleme të parikuperueshme në jetën në çift.
9. They lie about their money
They are passed off as someone they are not and that makes it doubly difficult! Not having money is one thing and pretending to be someone you are not is something else and very dangerous.
10. They don't know how to be flexible
They don't know how to behave in a restaurant with you, they don't know how to be polite and even more so how to be generous. They never offer to pay first and see almost every penny that comes out of their pocket and yours. Run!
Source: Huffington Post
