Let's face it! It's not that simple to be a single while you're in a relationship. The virtual world and various applications may facilitate the process a little, but sometimes the opposite happens.
However, even the desire to meet someone organically can be associated with stress or cause anxiety. It happens that people sometimes take themselves completely out of the dating world because they believe in some myths they shouldn't believe.
Three of the most famous ones you learn now.
Myth No.1: I must love myself before I want someone else
You have to remind yourself that when you start a relationship with someone it's possible that the relationship is healthy even if you have still unresolved problems with yourself. You can work with yourself without causing relationship problems.
People don't feel good all the time. Stress, sensitivity, emotional insecurities occasionally plague us all, but the choice is not to leave romantic relationships on the pretext that you must want yourself first.
Myth No.2: Dating world should be fun
It is a very small minority of people who experience excellent experiences in first and not only meetings. Not always things go what we'd like. In fact, recognition requires impensation and a lot of work. Of course you should enjoy the recognition process, but don't think it will always be this experience that you will live.
Myth No. 3: I must be motivated to go out to new meetings
People sometimes lose their desire to reach a target even if they probably want a connection. When you feel that motivation is a separate challenge, try yourself how challenging this process is and focus on the things you want to achieve. So, focus on values not the fears you may have.
When you're finally thinking of entering the world of recognition, but for one reason or the other you hesitate, focus on the final goal and what's important to you. It's okay for a while not to be enthusiastic about this process. Even if it causes you anxiety or stress you should know it's normal, but what you have to do is accept your fears and let values guide the behaviors you do.
Burimi: Psychology Today
