A lot of people are suspicious when they've finally found someone he likes. They often do not know how to behave to impress them, they are confused about how to make the conversation never end and above all, how to keep alive the interest of the person they would love to partner in the near future. There are 3 very simple and functional ways that help impress the fixation of the moment and you don't need any great courage to follow them!
1. Embrace sensitivity
Expressing your feelings and being free is the highest act of sensitivity and the right people will appreciate it. Instead of pretending you're not interested or hiding behind shame, embrace sensitivity. It's the best way to deal with even the most embarrassing emotions.
Remind yourself that those butterflies in your stomach are a good sign - they show you're alive, healthy and ready for a new love. Psychologists say one of the best ways to learn what the other person is feeling is to imagine how you would feel in such a situation. By being sensitive you will clear up faster, you will feel more sincere, calmer and the dialogue will be healthier among you.
2. Keep up with your life and schedule
It's very nice that you're finally really interested in someone and even more so when you find the courage to openly show that. However, it is not very healthy to devote yourself only to this aspect and stop living to see if the attraction is reciprocal. Don't make plans for how your life should be or not. Don't check social media to see if he wrote you or not. Don't ruin plans with family or friends just for the hope that he'll invite you out. Live life at will and let fate decide what's written for you. Not himself does mental health a favor, but gives independence signals to the other person, qualities that are very attractive to everyone.
3. Be yourself
It sounds cliché, but it's actually the essence of everything. Originality will save you if you want something real, long-lasting and enjoy it the way you deserve it. Don't try to look or be the ones you're not. Being authentic will always make you look beautiful, facing every corner.
Burimi: Psychology Today
