Boundaries are very important in every aspect, especially in the sexual one. Thus, you will be able to receive and give more pleasure, as well as feel comfortable with your partner and your experiences.
How to set boundaries? Saying these phrases:
When the position is uncomfortable
This position is not making me feel good. Can we try another one?
When he/she asks you to experiment with something you don't agree with
I am not in favor of experimenting with…
Actually, I'm not feeling very comfortable with…
When you're just not in the mood
I'm not in the mood for sex. Can we just sit and cuddle while watching a movie?
When they take actions that hurt/cause pain/demean you without your consent
Never do this again! Not without discussing it first!
When he thinks he doesn't have a condom for his "giant" penis
I don't have sex without a condom!
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