If your ex continues to not leave you alone even though you have been very clear about the decision to break up, he probably belongs to people with dark personality qualities. Is there a reason why ex-partners continue to pursue you even after the breakup?
The main reasons lie precisely in their personality traits and usually such people are characterized by:
1. Machiavellianism ( a term that refers to someone who is manipulative, likes to intrigue and acts cunningly most of the time)
2. Narcissist (obsessed with himself and believes that he is more special than everyone else, the most talented and therefore superior compared to those around him.)
3. Psychopathy (describes someone who seeks danger and becomes a danger to others and at the same time lacks empathy.)
4. Sadism (refers to someone who finds pleasure in hurting others)
People who are characterized by these types of personalities are usually distinguished by the following behaviors
1.
Change partners constantly
2.
Their connections last very little
3.
They are traitors and unfaithful
4.
They are constantly looking for new emotions and experiences through sexual relations.
Recent studies have concluded that men with such personality traits are outnumbered by women, so they tend to be the ones who become toxic even after the relationship is over.
The problem is that there are many cases where this type of stalking is confused by victims and called "love" when it is an unhealthy obsession that comes as a result of dark personality traits.
So if he goes ahead and insists on a comeback or tries to make the day-to-day difficult leave the "love" option aside. Probably the reason is one of the features mentioned above.
Source: Psychology Today
