1. Lying about your closeness to someone else
If you have to lie to your partner about your intimacy with someone else, it is a sign of emotional betrayal. When you constantly feel the need to hide the deep connection you have with someone who is not your official partner, it is a clear sign that something is going on between you. In healthy relationships both partners are open with each other. Emotional involvement is just as painful as physical discovery.
2. You complain about your partner to someone else
Emotional cheating means talking about all your relationship problems with someone else. Instead of discussing problems with the person you're in a relationship with, you find someone else to open up to. The conclusion? You distance yourself more from your partner to become more emotionally connected to the other person.
3. Always share big news with him before telling your partner
When you get good news and can't wait to tell someone who isn't your partner, that's where we have a problem. He/she is supposed to be the first to hear the big news before sharing it with others, but if you have another need inside of you - do well to choose it to avoid injuries that come later.
4. Unwittingly turn your partner into the person who is "always there"
It's very normal to have "naive temptations" from time to time, but if you see your partner as something that will always be there and not as the person you want to be with, something is wrong. Staying in a relationship when your mind and body belong to someone else isn't fair to either party, and you won't get anyone's needs met.
5. Delete messages or calls
If you hide or delete messages with someone, consider it a red flag. It's one thing to constantly communicate with someone you like, and another to do it secretly because you know your partner wouldn't like it. You have entered the territory of betrayal - love without love.
6. Put someone else before your partner
Tradhtia emocionale fillon nga mendja. Në nja marrëdhënie të shëndetshme, të dy palët e vendosin njëri-tjetrin të parin, por nëse në mënyrë të pavetëdijshme ti vendos dikë tjetër dhe i jep më shumë energji emocionale atij/asaj do të thotë se gjërat kanë ndryshuar.
7. Ti gënjen dhe thua se "e ke vetëm shok"
Nëse ndjen nevojën për të gënjyer në lidhje me një "shoqëri të pastër" duhet të kthesh sytë nga lidhja aktuale. Një shoqëri nuk është më e pastër nëse për të t'i detyrohesh të thuash gënjeshtra tek partneri apo të ndjesh gjëra disi të çuditshme për "shokun", "shoqen". Nuk ka asgjë të keqe të ruash raport të afërt me dikë ndërkohë që je i lidhur, për aq kohë sa ndjesitë janë të çiltra nga të dyja palët.
8. Për të marrë vëmendje ti i çon mesazhe të tjerëve
Which means that you don't want it from your partner, but from someone else. Even if you're not physically cheating, enjoying the attention of someone who isn't your boyfriend can be considered emotional cheating.
9. Seeks comfort from someone else
It is a clear sign of emotional betrayal. There's nothing wrong with having a close friend to turn to for support, but looking to someone else in difficult times and turning your back on your partner instead of communicating with them is a pretty serious problem.
Source: Bustle
