Friends are always precious, not only to spend time, but to express, cry, laugh, share happy and bitter moments. But there are some things you should know in your relationship with friends:
1. You are not obligated to tolerate cancellation of plans without a reason
We all know someone who is very happy to go out and have a drink, but as soon as the moment approaches, they disappear, don't pick up the phone, or cancel the plan without any explanation. You can understand it the first few times, but when it happens again, you don't have to tolerate it.
2. There is a limit to gossiping
Gossip is definitely a part of friendship, but know that if your friend knows no limits, you will be the next victim. If you or he/she gossips or comments about each other, we are sorry, but it is not the case for a healthy friendship.
3. Don't feel bad if you have a small group of friends
Don't be fooled by that cool group on Instagram. 1 or 2 good friends are all you need in life.
4. You will regret if you leave your friends for your boyfriend
If you spend all your time with your boyfriend, trust us, you'll end up breaking up because you're not respecting each other's boundaries. And if during this time you sacrificed time with your friends, when you face a heartbreak, you will look for their support, but most likely you will not find it.
5. Miqtë që konkurrojnë me ty për gjithçka janë “flamur i kuq”
Nëse janë xhelozë, apo duan të tregojnë se janë më të mirë se ti, mos u shmang prej tyre, largohu me vrap!
6. Nëse 2 miq grinden, nuk ke pse mban anë
Diskutimi është i tyre dhe mbetet i tyre. Ti mund të rrish me të dyja palët, njësoj si në fillim.
7. Mendohu mirë para se të jetosh me shokun/qen tënd/e
Ndryshe është të jeni miq jashtë e ndryshe në shtëpi. Bëj një listë të gjatë me PRO dhe KUNDËR, analizo sjellje, huqe, zakone dhe problematika. Në fund, shtro pyetjen: “A do të doja të jetoja me këtë njeri?”.
8. Mos ji ai/ajo që lë shokun/qen sepse takon dikë të ri
Nuk ka rëndësi sa tërheqës/e është djali/vajza që sapo takove, shoku/qja jote është atje. Nuk mund thjesht ta braktisësh e të dalësh diku me të saponjohurin/ën.
9. Për tema që të lëndojnë, vendos kufij
It doesn't matter if it's considered something small or big, if it hurts or touches you, you have to set boundaries!
10. Do not judge and do not fear judgment
Talk openly with your friends and let them do the same. Bottom line, you're there for each other through thick and thin.
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