In everything magnificent that occurred during the celebrations for the queen's jubilee, one of the many spoken and viral moments were those with the protagonist Prince Louis. Rebellious, funny, trusting and unconvinced mimics, Prince Louis took everyone's heart, but not only that. A video made viral where her mother, Kate, tried to calm the baby down became a disctution object in the network.
Mothers from all over the world found themselves in Kate's reaction, which very finely asked the carefree 4-year-old to calm down. On the other hand, there were also those who criticized her behavior, saying it was her irresponsibility that failed to control his behavior in that kind of public outing.
Is it worth such criticism if Kate Middleton strips herself of titles and retains only motherstatus? How should you behave in such cases?
Initially, if you're facing the child's embarrassing behavior you should know you're not the only ones and the princess was the best example to prove that.
1. No need for excessive reactions
Funny faces, touchwith hands, little ones' screams or demands without room to frustrate, but you don't have to take it very personal. Don't even react to any of his behavior as you won't see a result. What you can do is focus on behaviors that require attention and ignore the rest. Don't get angry because you're just going to make things worse.
2. Don't talk bad about other people at home
Life is filled with stressful moments: bosses are defiant and sometimes tiring, neighbors annoy us as we may be annoyed by our husbands on certain occasions. Your job as a parent is to know how to manage anger in the presence of children. Children are excellent imitators, so don't be surprised if one beautiful day you hear the girl/son speak with the son about others or be impressed. Remind yourself that they're seeing you at every moment, so you give the best model of yourself.
3. Note good behavior
Don't criticize and advise all the time. When they behave well, congratulate him/her for understanding changes more clearly. Unfortunately, children respond well to assessments, so remember to do it to you whenever they deserve it.
4. Apologize
If your little ones are stubborn in public, the first thing you have to do is apologize to the other people around who are probably worrying. You never know who you're dealing with, so instead of explaining, apologize directly.
5. Talk to them about sensations
Tell him what he did wrong and talk to him at length. Tell him how his behavior affects others. Kids understand what it means to hurt someone. Make them understand how they might feel if someone did the same behavior.
6. Understand that there are consequences when you deserve it
Once you've been calmly clarified and irresponsibly, learn that every behavior has consequences. You can limit the time you see dolls on TV or not play for a few hours.
