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5 reasons why it is important to be friends before you are loved

5 reasons why it is important to be friends before you are loved

It has happened to all of us to meet someone and say to ourselves "this is the right one", but have you ever wondered how much you know this man beyond the feeling he caused you or the physical attraction? Sometimes the pressure to "fall in love" or find the "right one" makes us neglect many important links for a healthy and long-term relationship. One of them is the importance of being friends before you are loved. Why should?

1. Being friends helps you get to know each other as you really are

Being friends before you are loved you have the opportunity to see each other in a variety of situations. No one will try to take action to catch the eye or to please the other. Do not expect anything in return and in the long run, if the connection goes to the next level you will find it easier to accept them as they are and be more open.

So you saw his ugly side much earlier and you are sure to accept it as it is. 

2. In a society, there is room for other types of relationships

You can both go out with other people because there is no room for jealousy or possessiveness. No one owes anyone. Over time you may find that you or the other person feels something more. Usually when you find yourself in love with a friend it rarely happens that you love them for the wrong reasons, so such relationships are even healthier.

3. Society helps build trust

Trust is the foundation of a long-term relationship. When you are able to trust your man you have no fears or insecurities within yourself. You feel safe in that relationship because you know your man and do not suffer from torturous thoughts that cause anxiety every time you think of them. 

4. Being friends allows you to explore more together

When you are connected you tend to isolate yourself from each other and spend all your time there. Being close friends connects even more through the adventures you can do together and in a group. There you also see how the other person interacts in crowded environments. 

5. When you are initially friends, you achieve your goals faster

You share the same values, ideas and objectives. You see life the same and want to enjoy it the same. This does not mean that you agree on everything, but your principles and goals are the same. Maybe that has made friendship turn into love.

Source: Psychology Today

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