Sunny Megatron, sexologist, describes "humiliation kink" as follows:
"Consensual psychological humiliation done for sexual or emotional arousal is usually called a humiliating game in BDSM. It most often occurs during the dominant / submissive game and falls under the umbrella of psychological sadomasochism. "Erotic humiliation can be given verbally, physically, or a combination of both."
Like most forms of such games, it can be incorporated inside or outside the bedroom. While some people like to add the game of humiliation to their sex, it can also be the stand-alone form of the game, or the 'scene' to use the term BDSM. For example, you can turn dinner into a humiliating scene by making someone eat with their hands, or by begging for every bite and then feeding it from your fork.
"The key to understanding erotic humiliation is to know that particular actions or scenarios are not universally humiliating," she says. "For example, consider being consensually 'ordered' to perform a striptease. Some would blush with shame and want to hide, while others could hardly wait for that moment."
Rebecca Jay, another sexologist, expands the variety of ways people can play with humiliation.
"Mutual humiliation is often very personal and can range from verbal humiliation (insult, ridicule, humiliation) to physical humiliation."
What is so sexy about being humiliated?
When you ask people "why", the answers can be as similar as they are different.People are drawn to play with power and control because of the way it builds connection and trust in their relationship.
"Erotic humiliation can help partners feel more connected to each other," says Jay.
Like many activities in the strange world of sex and / or BDSM, the possibilities for such games are endless. And if you do not feel comfortable with any of these games, there is still nothing wrong with that.
Burimi: Elite Daily
